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People can one hundred bear since carefree
In actual life, some people have rude temper, burst into a rage easily. Then a benignant look of some people, bear and bring disgrace to comity, have a pair of modest and courteous kind manners of treating the person. Must trim Germany first while trimming the heart, must make anger first while promoting health. Perhaps someone will say, the happiness, anger, grief and joy are human natures, live in the world full of contradictions, who has never met the angry and awkward, annoying and angry thing? But angry to get angry to keep in good health or speak cultivate the moral character and nourish the nature, from human body, one hundred hurt the one without a profit. Ancient cloud: "Bear for the moment calmly, the sea and sky are boundless to return one step. " If one can accomplish widely and cherish magnanimously, bear the disgrace and does not debate, can be far away from right and wrong naturally, have, consider, spend a leisurely and carefree life while being carefree.
Say in " the Analects of Confucius defends fairy commonly ": " whether can't bear while being small, messy to work for while being loud " ; Si Maqian says in " Historical Records ": " small to can't bear cardinal principles of righteousness of making " ; There " can grow one hundred good fortune to bear, with causing a thousand auspiciously " too among the people , " hardworking nothing in the world is difficult, one hundred bears and raises Tai Wo of the hall " Proverb. " one hundred bore the song " that GongYi write Zhang say the Tang Dynasty: "Benevolence person bear people to be difficult to bear, the wise bear people can't bear. The side pondering on the past and future and bearing, the ones that pretended to be deaf and dumb and bore are accurate. Bearing words can travel all over the world, bearing words can be formed and near. Afford to bear. Bear so as to have enough and to spare Ji hardworkingly, bear so as to have no disease dissolutely. " Been hanging high too on the hall of Lin Zexu, imperial envoy of Qing Dynasty " Make anger " Speeches alert,ancient people have know to angry harmfulness early to last China. Officer Lin Zexu is to the governor in Guangdong and Guangxi Provinces, he is unable to restrain while handling the public affair once, a teacup breaks into pieces under rage. As he lifts the head, see that " makes anger " in one's own motto Two words, realize one's own old trouble has been made, so has declined the doing of the servant immediately, start to sweep the teacup broken into pieces, show that repents by oneself. While getting along with people, does not go off congenially easily without dividing merits, words, this is a kind of behavior without ability to control oneself. The person with too old internal heat, should look like the forest divided by like that, should have self-knowledge, strengthen training, pay attention to " make anger " ,Calm, convince people by reasoning, can't indulge the in mind nameless fire, otherwise injure others as well as injure oneself.
China's ancient Chinese medicine, as to " anger " There is penetrating argumentation. Chinese medicine think anger by angry growing all, it is two twin brother with anger to be angry. Not smooth by the anger anger, but the anger is broken out. Anger will be enabled " the vim and vigour dawdles, hot-tempered, injure the liver angrily " The general knowledge is early the sixth of the twelve Earthly Branches is known very well by people. In actual life, do not lack angry, furious and the dead one either. As the saying goes: " whether first bowl of rice fill out fully stomach, the one breath can make people extremely full " . The story of three angry Zhou Yu of Zhu Ge-liang in history, Zhou Yu, under resenting violent rage, the story that the mouth spits the blood and dies is known by everybody. A lot of anger of common people's mostly come from the greed and selfish idea, the quarrel between neighbourhood, the quarrel on the road only for a little small profit, or has been damaged small by some. If can treat the position and wealth in the world with a heart without worldly desires, anger is small naturally, would not burst into a rage for some small gain and loss too.
In people's life, always meet a lot of and let common people feel angry thing. But if we can change the angry psychology into the grateful psychology, can turn anger into happily and auspiciously, reach the noble mental realm.
It injures the person of you that grateful, because he has tempered your will;
Trip over the person of you gratefully, because he has strengthened your ability;
Cheat the person of you gratefully, because he has increased your intelligence;
Reprimand the person of you gratefully, because he lets you learn to stand;
Thank all all living creature becoming attached to in the life, because their existence makes your life rich and colorful
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